All day I scatter precious energy and invariably come home completely depleted, craving a dark corner to hide in. I often notice that I give all my energy away to people who are less important to me than Boyfriend and then come home with little left for him. The things that matter the Dopey Happy Hallothanksmas shirt and I will buy this most to me and where I spend the bulk of my time don’t always match up. I don’t wear any makeup (and don’t believe that made up women are “in their best state”) so if I take your question literally it doesn’t really apply to me. But I think the point you are trying to make is really important, in particular during a time of year where we tend to take stock and realign our lives. Are we giving strangers the best of ourselves and leaving whatever is left over for those we love the most? The thing is, self-kindness is a skill. The same as any other skill out there. The more you practice it, the better you become at it. You may look like you fell out of an ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down, but there’s no way that you could be ugly on the inside� See, inside-ugly people don’t know they’re ugly. They think they’re fine, it’s the world that’s messed up! So basically, if you’re concerned that you’re ugly on the inside, you probably aren’t. Why did you plant an ugly tree in your yard in the first place? Was it mislabeled? And once you figured out what it was, why did you climb the thing? Oh well� What�s done is done, I suppose. All you can do now is move forward!
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This is going to be tough. Trees have roots, and the Dopey Happy Hallothanksmas shirt and I will buy this longer a tree is allowed to grow, the deeper the root structure goes! But like any other plant, trees need nourishment to grow, and this tree feeds off of your emotions. Take a good long look in the mirror. Notice how it doesn�t break when you look at it? That�s a positive step, right? I have a confession. I went out with an ugly woman once. We met online. She was wonderful and charming on the phone, but in person, she looked like Quasimodo�s ugly sister. She was tall, with broad shoulders and big hands and � wait. She wasn�t a man, was she?At any rate, the point I�m trying to make is that I really enjoyed talking to her, right up until I met her in person. Not because she was �ugly�, but because she apologized for being �ugly� before we even made it into the restaurant. She was so defensive about how she looked that she refused to have any sort of fun! My friend �John� felt the deep ache when his girlfriend left him. She left him, and told him that she didn’t see a future together with him. She wanted to be married, and he didn’t have a career that could support a family financially. Though �cold,� she did have a valid point. Career was the �white elephant� in the room whenever he was around his family. He was easily hurt by the subject of his career, and everyone tiptoed around the subject. When she left, he ached for weeks until an inspiration came to him. He said he would never let anyone make further negative remarks regarding his career. The ache turned into anger. And to manage anger, he started to work out at a gym.